I am very pleased that I had the opportunity to interview lovely Tinka Kalajzic, a passionate traveller who comes from the same town as me.
Can you tell me a bit about yourself – how old are you, where have you grow up, what consists your formal education (universities you attended etc.) My name is Tinka and I’m a 27 year old girl born in Rijeka, Croatia. I have a bachelor degree in Cultural Studies, and a master degree in Communication science. I also had a chance to finish music high school where I was playing piano.
When have you started to feel “travel bug”? Have you travelled as a child, as a student or you’ve started in more mature age? I wasn’t traveling so often when I was a kid… We would sometimes go to shorter trips, but most of them were in Croatia. Five years ago I started travelling around Europe quite often with my friends from the college. And three years ago I started traveling by myself.
How many countries have you visited so far? I had a chance to visit 32 countries so far. Even though that number maybe sounds exciting, it is just a 15% of all the world countries. So… I guess I still have a lot of places to travel to!
What possessions do you always have with you while travelling? I try to pack as light as I can… But I always do have my camera, laptop, a little bit of clothes, toothbrush, some cash and, apparently, passport with me.
What inspired you to have first solo travel and where was it? Do you have a family member or a friend who travelled a lot and you were inspired by her/his stories – do you have any kind of role model or external inspiration to start travelling or is it all coming from inside you and your personality? At one point I realised I really wanted to try it out by myself. When you overcome all you fears, and realise you can take care of yourself, that amazing feeling of liberation and freedom is not possible to describe with words. My first solo adventure was my trip to South-East Asia; Thailand, Laos and Cambodia. I follow some stories of people in Croatia who are traveling a lot, but I wouldn’t consider them my role models. The do inspire me with their photos and stories for sure.
Did your first solo travel affected your upcoming trips and changed you in the terms that you maybe found it better to travel by yourself and can you describe how different do you find it – being on your own in a new country vs. being in a group of friends or a friend for example? After landing in Bangkok alone for the first time I’ve experienced my first panic attack. And there was no one to say: “Hey, keep calm! Everything is going to be ok…” … So, I guess you just have to find a way to deal with all the problems and don’t expect someone else is going to take care of it… But, on the other hand – no more compromises, no more fights, no more situations where you have to be in a certain place just because the group you are travelling with is there, even though you would much rather be somewhere else… It all has its pros and cons.
You probably meet a lot of new people and you form new friendships with people on your travels. Have you met someone who had a great influence on you and with whom you’ll stay friend for life although you went on different paths at some point on your trips? I have met so many inspiring people, and luckily – thanks to the virtual world and technology – I stay in touch with them on regular basis. They all influenced my life, some of them more, some of them less… But I feel super grateful to have friends all over the world, and I cannot wait to visit some of them again soon.
I saw from your blog that you worked in Canada? How have you found that experience? Would you advise young people from your country to go there in an attempt for better life in economical terms as we know situation in Croatia is not the best considering employment? Yes, I would suggest working holiday visas to everyone. It is a great experience, and I believe that anyone could learn a lot from it. In some moments it could be a little bit demotivating, since you come to a new country with a certain level of education. The main mistake people do in those kinds of situations is “having expectations”. No! That is completely wrong. You have to be super humble, and ignore in a way the fact you spent years and years studying something… I guess you have to be aware of your “immigrant status” and consider starting something from the zero. If you are patient enough, you will find your way to work it out in a direction you want it. How do you finance your travels? I work like crazy for couple of months. No private life, 19h work days, no spending money, focusing only on work… After that I’m free and relaxed for at least a year.
Do you use couch surfing? Are you staying in hostels? Unfortunately, the fact that I am a girl who is travelling alone limits me in using some services like couch surfing for example… I’ve regretted not being born as a man a lot of times, but there is not much I could do regarding that. I try to be careful as much as I can be. Most of the times I’m staying in hostels what I find amusing. I often meet a lot of travellers that way. Super inspiring people that come up with some new, crazy plans… So I often change my route after meeting some people that I click with.
I saw on your blog that you lived in Costa Rica in an old bus that you decorated and I personally found that amazing – really inspiring and cool. Can you describe that experience and how did you come out with that idea? And for how long have you lived there? Also, I’ve noticed that you’re very fond of Costa Rica – what exactly do you like so much about that country? Yes, one of my life dreams came true and I was living in a bus from 1974 called Karina. Converting a bus into a tiny living space to me always sounded so much fun. You can customise everything just the way you want. In small spaces you can change a lot with a very small amount of effort and if you have a creative idea, it doesn’t take much to make it happen. Matt, the owner of the bus, did pretty much everything; cleaned up, removed the rust, painted the inside white, built a nice and cozy bed, built a locker, made a little kitchen with propane tank, built shelves and a table, hangers for the clothes, lights and roof over it. I was just doing the touch ups, gifting Karina some colour + flower power & making her look warmer and cosier. I remember hanging out in my underwear all day long, looking like a crazy hippie; covered in paint and having messy hair 7 days in a row. But it was magical! I spent a month and a half there, but than I had to move on… It was really hard for me to leave Karina and Costa Rica. That is a country I connected with the most. It is beautiful! Jungle + sea + beaches + mangos + iguanas + monkeys + coconuts + yoga + surfing… I felt true happiness there that came out of living such a simple life with not a lot of materialistic things. Good energy and sunshine can make miracles.
Do you have your favourite place on earth and why if you do? Not really sure if I found one yet, but Santa Teresa in Costa Rica is definitely close… A magical place! I have to go back for sure! How long have you travelled through Central America and can you describe the general vibe of those countries? Some of them are known as dangerous – have you personally experienced something unpleasant there? I spent around eight months there. It was one of my favourite travels so far… Guatemala is the most colourful country I have ever been. I love it! Nicaragua is fun, but not super safe… Mexico is pretty dangerous as well, but really interesting. This is the first time I was close to experiencing some pretty dangerous situations, but luckily, I would get away with them in the last second.
While travelling, what kind of food do you prefer to eat? Do you like to try local tastes and what country has in your opinion the best cuisine that you tried? Even though most of the times every one will advise you not to eat street food. “It is not safe, you will get food poisoning!” … I do not agree with that. I tried some of the best food on the streets of Thailand. Yuuum! I believe they have the best cuisine I tried so far
It is said that people are different around the world, yet the same – do you find that true? Have you found significant differences in people from different cultures and if you have what would it be? Where have you found the most friendly people? Well, I guess that is true… Although, I would say people in Europe for example are more focused on material possessions and they are chasing certain things to rich the feeling of success… On the other side, people living in the villages of Laos are super happy not owning a lot. Their definition of success and happiness is completely opposite than the one that people in more developed societies have. But, you cannot really generalise on that level. From my opinion, Icelandic people are really friendly!
Do you hang out a lot with locals and what languages are you speaking? Have you learned new languages thanks to exploring the world? I love hanging out with locals, and I believe that is the best way of learning a language. Since I was living in USA and Canada, I improved my English vocabulary. I had opportunity to learn Italian in the school, so I did not have a lot of problem with learning Spanish. French is a language I would like to improve for sure, and Icelandic was a really tough one since you cannot really compare it to anything else. Right now I am in a phase of learning Hindi.
I’ve noticed that you also attend and work on a lot of music festivals? Do you have a favourite festival and what is your main work there? Yes, I love music festivals. They are so colourful, exuberant, vibrant and happy! Canada has a lot of good ones; Shambhala, Bass Coast, Astral Harvest, Luminosity… I guess my favourite is Burning Man that happens every year in Nevada. It is totally crazy and amazing!
Your next trip is India. How come that you have chosen it as your next destination? I was thinking about India for couple of years already! I’ve heard so many interesting stories and a lot of people told me they have a feeling I will enjoy it a lot. How long will you stay there and what do you expect from a new adventure? I have a 6 months visa, so I think I should have enough time to explore certain things there. I expect learning, evolving and capturing many colourful moments.
Which parts of India are you planning to visit and will you also go to some surrounding countries, for example Nepal? I will start with Mumbai. Head down South and visit Goa for a bit. Continue South and reach Kerala at one point. Than, when it gots warmer I’ll slowly start going North. I wanna visit Rajasthan… The sacred cities Varanasi and Rishikesh sound like amazing places. I am really excited about all that! Nepal and Sri Lanka also sound interesting, but I’ll see how my Indian story will develop. India is a pretty big country, so I’ll focus on that for the beginning.
And for the end, 2 cliche questions that I assumed a lot of people already asked you – do you plan to settle in one place one day or you see yourself as a traveller for life? And do you have suggestions for people who would like to see the world but don’t know how? I believe that I’ll have problems with getting rid of my travel bug… And I don’t see myself living in the same place for a longer time. My curiosity about the rest of the world is too strong, and I guess I am going to continue exploring as long as I can. I would like to try explaining people that it is not so complicated to live that kind of lifestyle. Once you get rid of the fears and start organising your financial situation, everything will start working out. The ones who really want to go out there and experience the world – they can find the way… They’ll save up the money somehow even though that would require of them to stop smoking, spending money on booze every weekend, buying new clothes or eating in restaurants. There is always a way if you want something bad enough. And life is to short to spend it living the life you are not really enjoying, and waiting for some better time to do something that would really fulfil you!